"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bonafide

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What are some of the best places to take her? Dont say the movies, I'm not taking a chick to the movies on the first date ever again, I just find that too generic and boring.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rjames407

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Zoo/art gallery/ice skating/mini golf. Just somewhere that is fun. The movies is not very goods as there is no interaction.
 

hbxdoode

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it all depends on you bro. what kinds of things you're into! for me, i'm pretty mellow guy. instead of going to the movies, i rent movies and invite the chick to my house, that way it's easier to make my move over some wine, make sure i set the mood right.
There's nothing wrong with taking your date to dinner, just make sure its a nice restaurant something different... perhaps a restaurant with live music! thats always fun.
 

jcap

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first dates should be short and inexpensive.
the important thing is the #2nd date, not the first date.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yama600rr

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jcap said:
starbucks

first dates should be short and inexpensive.
the important thing is the #2nd date, not the first date.
i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.
 

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yama600rr said:
i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.
Yama is right. The first date is the most important so make sure you are getting enough time with her to make a lasting impression on her when she figures out if you are worth it or not. Although i know most of you "alpha males" out there will have something to say about this but, i still stand by it because you both have to believe to be worth the time and effort or else it just wont work.
 
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