Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
What are some of the best places to take her? Dont say the movies, I'm not taking a chick to the movies on the first date ever again, I just find that too generic and boring.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.jcap said:starbucks
first dates should be short and inexpensive.
the important thing is the #2nd date, not the first date.
Yama is right. The first date is the most important so make sure you are getting enough time with her to make a lasting impression on her when she figures out if you are worth it or not. Although i know most of you "alpha males" out there will have something to say about this but, i still stand by it because you both have to believe to be worth the time and effort or else it just wont work.yama600rr said:i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.