Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
What are some of the best places to take her? Dont say the movies, I'm not taking a chick to the movies on the first date ever again, I just find that too generic and boring.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When you ask a girl out...
- Thread starter Bonafide
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
it all depends on you bro. what kinds of things you're into! for me, i'm pretty mellow guy. instead of going to the movies, i rent movies and invite the chick to my house, that way it's easier to make my move over some wine, make sure i set the mood right.
There's nothing wrong with taking your date to dinner, just make sure its a nice restaurant something different... perhaps a restaurant with live music! thats always fun.
There's nothing wrong with taking your date to dinner, just make sure its a nice restaurant something different... perhaps a restaurant with live music! thats always fun.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.jcap said:starbucks
first dates should be short and inexpensive.
the important thing is the #2nd date, not the first date.
Yama is right. The first date is the most important so make sure you are getting enough time with her to make a lasting impression on her when she figures out if you are worth it or not. Although i know most of you "alpha males" out there will have something to say about this but, i still stand by it because you both have to believe to be worth the time and effort or else it just wont work.yama600rr said:i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.