Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when you are sore

speakeasy

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My legs are still sore as hell from a workout earlier in the week. Yesterday I was still having trouble walking up stairs. I am still sore today but did make it out to do some MMA and one they got warmed up a bit I was able to work today.

But my question is, when you are sore, should you completely lay off using the muscles until they are completely pain-free again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blackbelt2k

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i don't think so...just lower the weight if you have to, but continue to punish them... as the old addage goes "no pain no gain"
 

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But doesn't the pain mean that the muscles are regenerating? By continuing to work them while they're sore are you stopping the healing process that makes them grow?
 

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That sounds like a recipe for overtraining. I'd recommend taking a couple days off from lifting until you feel better. The adage "no pain no gain" is a recipe for injuries, your muscles and nervous system need to recover.
 

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use epson salt in a warm bath to ease muscle pain
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speakeasy said:
But doesn't the pain mean that the muscles are regenerating? By continuing to work them while they're sore are you stopping the healing process that makes them grow?
No it will actually help the recovery process. By working out, you get blood flowing into your legs. Blood has nutritients, needed for recovery.

The best thing to do when you have sore legs is to train them again. Just do it light, the goal is recovery, not exhausting the legs once again.
 

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i use a different muscle group when certain muscles are sore. i rest them at least 3-4 days.
 
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