When would you flake?

[Yo'Mama]

There's a girl you find hot. You have a first date set up. Would you flake if you:

1. Got ill. I don't mean something serious, just a bad cold or something.

2. Something else came up that you 'had' to attend - going away party, etc.

3. Were hungover from the night before.

4. Didn't feel like going out because you were in a bad mood.

etc, etc.

I'm guessing guys wouldn't flake for any of these reasons right? I don't think I would.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

There's a girl you find hot. You have a first date set up. Would you flake if you:

1. Got ill. I don't mean something serious, just a bad cold or something.

2. Something else came up that you 'had' to attend - going away party, etc.

3. Were hungover from the night before.

4. Didn't feel like going out because you were in a bad mood.

etc, etc.

I'm guessing guys wouldn't flake for any of these reasons right? I don't think I would.

Except from 2. I would flake for the other reasons, (as I already did). You want to be at your best in a date...

 

[perseverance]

The only reason I wouldn't attend a date is if I was ill. I'm not the best company when I'm ill, so I wouldn't want to ruin a date and waste time and money by going through with it. Otherwise if I've set up a date I'll attend.

 

[Chamber36]

I would attend unless the going away party was thrown by someone important.

 

[Hollow.man]

I've flakes for all the reasons you've stated. I've also flaked to watch the match with mates, and probably flaked to eat pizza with the lads on more than one occasion.

 

[SgtSplacker]

If I think i'm not going to enjoy myself i'll flake every time. I try to be as objective and fair as I can because I have a tendency to not want to leave my house. But if i'm sick, on a budget, bad mood, or whatever i'll flake. I have to honestly ask myself if I reeeeeeeeely think i'll enjoy the night. Then i'll go. It was to be like that with me because if i'm not into being out then I usually feel it was a waste of fundage..