Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
when women pay attention/flirt with you
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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not until you get chopped and screwed, or rejected, or denied.verysuave said:is it safe to assume to some of you that they are just attention wh0res/c0ck tease and nothing more
THEN you know she did it for attention.
its usually easy to find out these chicks, its like "to good to be true" they are into you, feeling u off the first approach. then u figured "i got the puzzy" then u ask her if she wanna come back to your crib AND then you know from there.
usually she will say some **** like "i cant leave my friends" or "i got a bf"
if you think she is, put her up to the test. dont waste your time with chicks that arent sure.
picture yourself as a salesmen. you WANT and NEED to make money to support your rent and car payments. would you waste your time with a customer whos not sure about a tv they want? and they just taking u tv to tv, and making u run around for quotes? all in the end you already invested 40 min? or would u rather find a new customer who wants a tv now?
pook once said "you buy a relationship" NOT BUILD ONE. MEANING you find a girl the way u want her to be, you dont find a girl and then try to change her for u nahhh man. when you go to a dealership to buy a new car. do u find any car then change it by painting it, adding stuff? no, you tell him the color you want and which options.
sorry if i got off topic, i just felt the need to say that.
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Attention Wh0re piece of garbage will turn on the kino, the smiles and all that good stuff but if she finds out that drinks are not on you and that she can't max out your credit card she'll immediately turn off the charm and good times.
Good woman will do all the kino, smiles, giggles and charm and then let you take her home so that she can blow you and fvck your brains out.
So yeah there's a simple difference between the two.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If some girl is flirting with u say at the Library...she no doubt likes u..she didnt visit the library so she could flirt and mess with guys heads