"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
when women pay attention/flirt with you
- Thread starter verysuave
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MisterMcGee
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not until you get chopped and screwed, or rejected, or denied.verysuave said:is it safe to assume to some of you that they are just attention wh0res/c0ck tease and nothing more
THEN you know she did it for attention.
its usually easy to find out these chicks, its like "to good to be true" they are into you, feeling u off the first approach. then u figured "i got the puzzy" then u ask her if she wanna come back to your crib AND then you know from there.
usually she will say some **** like "i cant leave my friends" or "i got a bf"
if you think she is, put her up to the test. dont waste your time with chicks that arent sure.
picture yourself as a salesmen. you WANT and NEED to make money to support your rent and car payments. would you waste your time with a customer whos not sure about a tv they want? and they just taking u tv to tv, and making u run around for quotes? all in the end you already invested 40 min? or would u rather find a new customer who wants a tv now?
pook once said "you buy a relationship" NOT BUILD ONE. MEANING you find a girl the way u want her to be, you dont find a girl and then try to change her for u nahhh man. when you go to a dealership to buy a new car. do u find any car then change it by painting it, adding stuff? no, you tell him the color you want and which options.
sorry if i got off topic, i just felt the need to say that.
KontrollerX
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Attention Wh0re piece of garbage will turn on the kino, the smiles and all that good stuff but if she finds out that drinks are not on you and that she can't max out your credit card she'll immediately turn off the charm and good times.
Good woman will do all the kino, smiles, giggles and charm and then let you take her home so that she can blow you and fvck your brains out.
So yeah there's a simple difference between the two.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If some girl is flirting with u say at the Library...she no doubt likes u..she didnt visit the library so she could flirt and mess with guys heads