"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is it safe to assume to some of you that they are just attention wh0res/c0ck tease and nothing more
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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only if you honestly think they aren't actually interested in you. it's a case to case thing
 
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Depends. Your question is too vague.
 
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verysuave said:
is it safe to assume to some of you that they are just attention wh0res/c0ck tease and nothing more
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not until you get chopped and screwed, or rejected, or denied.
THEN you know she did it for attention.

its usually easy to find out these chicks, its like "to good to be true" they are into you, feeling u off the first approach. then u figured "i got the puzzy" then u ask her if she wanna come back to your crib AND then you know from there.
usually she will say some **** like "i cant leave my friends" or "i got a bf"

if you think she is, put her up to the test. dont waste your time with chicks that arent sure.

picture yourself as a salesmen. you WANT and NEED to make money to support your rent and car payments. would you waste your time with a customer whos not sure about a tv they want? and they just taking u tv to tv, and making u run around for quotes? all in the end you already invested 40 min? or would u rather find a new customer who wants a tv now?

pook once said "you buy a relationship" NOT BUILD ONE. MEANING you find a girl the way u want her to be, you dont find a girl and then try to change her for u nahhh man. when you go to a dealership to buy a new car. do u find any car then change it by painting it, adding stuff? no, you tell him the color you want and which options.

sorry if i got off topic, i just felt the need to say that.
 
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Yeah you didn't provide enough for us to give you a proper answer but I'll try and give you an outline of a garbage woman and a good woman.

Attention Wh0re piece of garbage will turn on the kino, the smiles and all that good stuff but if she finds out that drinks are not on you and that she can't max out your credit card she'll immediately turn off the charm and good times.

Good woman will do all the kino, smiles, giggles and charm and then let you take her home so that she can blow you and fvck your brains out.

So yeah there's a simple difference between the two.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Depends on the setting and situation....If it's at the Club, Online chat room, or some place where attention *****s hang out well yeah u should'nt get carried away with it

If some girl is flirting with u say at the Library...she no doubt likes u..she didnt visit the library so she could flirt and mess with guys heads
 
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