aiforce_juan
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what does that make you think of them?? Im just wondering
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
when women ask for your number
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
If she's hot - Hey she's interested lets see where this goes...
If she's not - Thanks (probably won't call)
If she's not - Thanks (probably won't call)
aiforce_juan
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lately, women have been chasing me and wanting ME to ask for their number ( I believe)
If they were interested, shouldn't they have asked my number already or not necessarily?
If they were interested, shouldn't they have asked my number already or not necessarily?
It usually means they're not interested. For whatever reason, they feel uncomfortable in saying so in person and may give you a false hope . Now, when they refuse to give me their number, and they in turn ask for mine, I'll then refuse. Even in the past when I would give my number, i would promtly forget about them.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
every situation is different... once, and only once, i asked a cutie for her #. she said, "let me have yours." i said, "nevermind." she literally grabbed my phone out of my hand and typed her # in. after some time, she told me she wanted to make sure we'd meet again & that was the reason she wanted to get my # rather than the other way around. doesn't happen often, though; only once for me. but as a rule, i always ask for her # and if they ever give me that "let me have yours line," i don't proceed any further ("never mind").
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
Like this post says, the order of things is important.Originally posted by senator
It usually means they're not interested. For whatever reason, they feel uncomfortable in saying so in person and may give you a false hope . Now, when they refuse to give me their number, and they in turn ask for mine, I'll then refuse. Even in the past when I would give my number, i would promtly forget about them.
If she asks for your number unprompted, then she's probably very interested. If she doesn't give you her number but takes yours, it PROBABLY means she's not very interested (though i've had friends enter into LTRs from girls who just got their number and called them).
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
No, that's not how it works. They expect you to take the initiative and ask them. If that doesn't work, they'll do some "work" and hint and be subtle and see if you'll ask. If you still don't ask, they'll start making it obvisous, "we should get together sometime." You are right when you say they chase you wanting YOU to ask for the nubmer, no doubt about it. She still wants you to ask her, but most of the time she won't, specially if she's gone through all the steps and you haven't caught on or shown interest.Originally posted by aiforce_juan
lately, women have been chasing me and wanting ME to ask for their number ( I believe)
If they were interested, shouldn't they have asked my number already or not necessarily?
At best, most of the time you will get a "give me a call sometime", that is a blatant attempt of her still trying to GET YOU to ask her for the number.