aiforce_juan
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what does that make you think of them?? Im just wondering
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
when women ask for your number
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
If she's hot - Hey she's interested lets see where this goes...
If she's not - Thanks (probably won't call)
If she's not - Thanks (probably won't call)
aiforce_juan
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lately, women have been chasing me and wanting ME to ask for their number ( I believe)
If they were interested, shouldn't they have asked my number already or not necessarily?
If they were interested, shouldn't they have asked my number already or not necessarily?
It usually means they're not interested. For whatever reason, they feel uncomfortable in saying so in person and may give you a false hope . Now, when they refuse to give me their number, and they in turn ask for mine, I'll then refuse. Even in the past when I would give my number, i would promtly forget about them.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
every situation is different... once, and only once, i asked a cutie for her #. she said, "let me have yours." i said, "nevermind." she literally grabbed my phone out of my hand and typed her # in. after some time, she told me she wanted to make sure we'd meet again & that was the reason she wanted to get my # rather than the other way around. doesn't happen often, though; only once for me. but as a rule, i always ask for her # and if they ever give me that "let me have yours line," i don't proceed any further ("never mind").
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
Like this post says, the order of things is important.Originally posted by senator
It usually means they're not interested. For whatever reason, they feel uncomfortable in saying so in person and may give you a false hope . Now, when they refuse to give me their number, and they in turn ask for mine, I'll then refuse. Even in the past when I would give my number, i would promtly forget about them.
If she asks for your number unprompted, then she's probably very interested. If she doesn't give you her number but takes yours, it PROBABLY means she's not very interested (though i've had friends enter into LTRs from girls who just got their number and called them).
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
No, that's not how it works. They expect you to take the initiative and ask them. If that doesn't work, they'll do some "work" and hint and be subtle and see if you'll ask. If you still don't ask, they'll start making it obvisous, "we should get together sometime." You are right when you say they chase you wanting YOU to ask for the nubmer, no doubt about it. She still wants you to ask her, but most of the time she won't, specially if she's gone through all the steps and you haven't caught on or shown interest.Originally posted by aiforce_juan
lately, women have been chasing me and wanting ME to ask for their number ( I believe)
If they were interested, shouldn't they have asked my number already or not necessarily?
At best, most of the time you will get a "give me a call sometime", that is a blatant attempt of her still trying to GET YOU to ask her for the number.