"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When weird life situations(on her end) get in the way of dating how do you handle it?

marmel75

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For example once I went out on a few dates with a girl we were really getting along well, super high IL and then she ended up going out to a concert one night, slipping where someone had spilled a drink, breaking her arm and jacking up her shoulder pretty badly.

Things kind of fizzled out from there since she was out of commission for over a month...texted for a few weeks here and there, but then just kind of ended...

has anything similar happened to anyone and what ended up happening? Did you end up reconnecting with the woman after it resolved or did you just keep it moving or was there eventually lost interest on either side?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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R.U.G.

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Hmm... That’s a bit different as it was a medical isssue. Chances are, she was in pain and trying to heal. I would has tried to be a little more accommodating, if you wanted to keep her around and possibly build something. However, that’s water undee thr bridge now.

For me, it depends on the situation. For medical issues, I try to work around them for a bit. However, for a non medical issue, prob. just walk as per my zero tolerence policy.
 
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