"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When weird life situations(on her end) get in the way of dating how do you handle it?

marmel75

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For example once I went out on a few dates with a girl we were really getting along well, super high IL and then she ended up going out to a concert one night, slipping where someone had spilled a drink, breaking her arm and jacking up her shoulder pretty badly.

Things kind of fizzled out from there since she was out of commission for over a month...texted for a few weeks here and there, but then just kind of ended...

has anything similar happened to anyone and what ended up happening? Did you end up reconnecting with the woman after it resolved or did you just keep it moving or was there eventually lost interest on either side?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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R.U.G.

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Hmm... That’s a bit different as it was a medical isssue. Chances are, she was in pain and trying to heal. I would has tried to be a little more accommodating, if you wanted to keep her around and possibly build something. However, that’s water undee thr bridge now.

For me, it depends on the situation. For medical issues, I try to work around them for a bit. However, for a non medical issue, prob. just walk as per my zero tolerence policy.
 
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