"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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garruk

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guys,

so ive been on an off these forums for awhile. anwyays, im back with a new problem that id like all of your input on.

so in this particular situation, there are two girls who are both pretty good friends with one another. Both of them are into me but i havent really put any effort into either girl yet. My question is this: would it be smarter to focus on just one girl and score? or go after both but risk failing (should they realize that im gaming both girls)?

what would you guys do? To clarify, the two girls arent like best friends but htey are in the same sorority.

ideally, i would want to hook up with both just beacuse there both hot in their own ways (ones more classy hot, the other is more wild hot)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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search1ng

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go after one and avoid the drama, sheesh.
 
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Avoid the herd of drama llamas and only go after the one you like most. You will not regret it and keep us posted......... GARRUK! GARRRukkkkk! Oh, how rude of me... i was just practicing my battlecry for the land battle on Naboo .
 
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garruk

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yeah i defintately do want to avoid any drama; dont want to build a bad reputation or anything. im going to dinner with HB1 on tuesday, but i played it off as somehting casual for now so if i change my mind i can back out easy.

another problem right now... is facebook. how do you guys deal with this? girls that i dont want to know about eachother are bound to run into eachother's comments. HB1 just eariler loudly proclaimed our "date" to the rest of the FB world on my page.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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garruk

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king_turi,
i really do want to go after both, but i find it difficult to do so; just because sorority girls like to pretend their all classy and dignified and they would "never" fight much less talk to a guy trying to "play" them.

daydream_engineer,
lol, garruk is this magic card that was on a banner advertisement when i was making this account. the picture on the card was a beastly looking savage; i felt it to be a suitable name for a website dedicated to manly things. hhaha.
 
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