Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when two girls know eachother

garruk

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guys,

so ive been on an off these forums for awhile. anwyays, im back with a new problem that id like all of your input on.

so in this particular situation, there are two girls who are both pretty good friends with one another. Both of them are into me but i havent really put any effort into either girl yet. My question is this: would it be smarter to focus on just one girl and score? or go after both but risk failing (should they realize that im gaming both girls)?

what would you guys do? To clarify, the two girls arent like best friends but htey are in the same sorority.

ideally, i would want to hook up with both just beacuse there both hot in their own ways (ones more classy hot, the other is more wild hot)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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search1ng

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go after one and avoid the drama, sheesh.
 
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Avoid the herd of drama llamas and only go after the one you like most. You will not regret it and keep us posted......... GARRUK! GARRRukkkkk! Oh, how rude of me... i was just practicing my battlecry for the land battle on Naboo .
 

garruk

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yeah i defintately do want to avoid any drama; dont want to build a bad reputation or anything. im going to dinner with HB1 on tuesday, but i played it off as somehting casual for now so if i change my mind i can back out easy.

another problem right now... is facebook. how do you guys deal with this? girls that i dont want to know about eachother are bound to run into eachother's comments. HB1 just eariler loudly proclaimed our "date" to the rest of the FB world on my page.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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garruk

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king_turi,
i really do want to go after both, but i find it difficult to do so; just because sorority girls like to pretend their all classy and dignified and they would "never" fight much less talk to a guy trying to "play" them.

daydream_engineer,
lol, garruk is this magic card that was on a banner advertisement when i was making this account. the picture on the card was a beastly looking savage; i felt it to be a suitable name for a website dedicated to manly things. hhaha.
 
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