"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when two girls know eachother

garruk

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guys,

so ive been on an off these forums for awhile. anwyays, im back with a new problem that id like all of your input on.

so in this particular situation, there are two girls who are both pretty good friends with one another. Both of them are into me but i havent really put any effort into either girl yet. My question is this: would it be smarter to focus on just one girl and score? or go after both but risk failing (should they realize that im gaming both girls)?

what would you guys do? To clarify, the two girls arent like best friends but htey are in the same sorority.

ideally, i would want to hook up with both just beacuse there both hot in their own ways (ones more classy hot, the other is more wild hot)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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search1ng

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go after one and avoid the drama, sheesh.
 
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Avoid the herd of drama llamas and only go after the one you like most. You will not regret it and keep us posted......... GARRUK! GARRRukkkkk! Oh, how rude of me... i was just practicing my battlecry for the land battle on Naboo .
 

garruk

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yeah i defintately do want to avoid any drama; dont want to build a bad reputation or anything. im going to dinner with HB1 on tuesday, but i played it off as somehting casual for now so if i change my mind i can back out easy.

another problem right now... is facebook. how do you guys deal with this? girls that i dont want to know about eachother are bound to run into eachother's comments. HB1 just eariler loudly proclaimed our "date" to the rest of the FB world on my page.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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garruk

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king_turi,
i really do want to go after both, but i find it difficult to do so; just because sorority girls like to pretend their all classy and dignified and they would "never" fight much less talk to a guy trying to "play" them.

daydream_engineer,
lol, garruk is this magic card that was on a banner advertisement when i was making this account. the picture on the card was a beastly looking savage; i felt it to be a suitable name for a website dedicated to manly things. hhaha.
 
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