I have a problem that i think i tease some women too much until they get annoyed or angry with me. Like for example i was at a party and a girl wanted to me to go into the room and "swap clothes" with her because she thought my jumper was cool and i thought nah im gonna tease her a little more and say no when she was coming onto me i kept avoiding her advances. Is it possible to tease too much and if so when should you move in for the kill?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When to move in for the kill
- Thread starter wildchild
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
a girl wanted to take off her clothes for you, and you refused. You sound like you might have issues
DeathDealer
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a nice guy enjoys teasing and being ****y and funny all the time. have a nice day nice guy.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
you prolly came off as rejecting her rather then teasing her. when you just say "no" how the hell does she know wut that means?
i woulda said "haha, its gonna take you a little more then that to get my in that room with you. geez i think your trying to take advantage of a drunk guy"
i woulda said "haha, its gonna take you a little more then that to get my in that room with you. geez i think your trying to take advantage of a drunk guy"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
or phrase it "you dont want to seem like your taking advantage of a drunk guy do you? so try a lil harder and maby you'll get lucky"
Strctlypltnc
Don Juan
when to move in for the kill .......
" .............. at the first scent of blood "
I would have led her by the hand to this room. Locked the door behind me, and told her to go first. If she was still willing I would have intently watched her undress without a word. If she was naked at this stage of the game you can damn well bet she didnt want to be naked alone..................
" .............. at the first scent of blood "
I would have led her by the hand to this room. Locked the door behind me, and told her to go first. If she was still willing I would have intently watched her undress without a word. If she was naked at this stage of the game you can damn well bet she didnt want to be naked alone..................
I didnt mean i just said "no" i said things like very funny i know what your plan is. In a half serious tone. Then she just kept on coming and coming and coming like maybe rubbing herself up against me and then her friend would try the same but by this point i was too pissed to stand and she ****ed off.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
problem solved....don't expect your game to work when you're too drunk to stand
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
What's a jumper? Where I live it something a 6 year old girl wears.
Are you a 6 year old girl? I think this site might be inappropriate for you and you should hold off on the drinking till you're 9.
Maybe it's a cultural thing.
Do most 6 year old girls drink till they pass out in your culture?
Are you a 6 year old girl? I think this site might be inappropriate for you and you should hold off on the drinking till you're 9.
Maybe it's a cultural thing.
Do most 6 year old girls drink till they pass out in your culture?
Here's the key that you missed:
As a guy, when a girl propositions you like that, you are NOT in any position to decline.
I mean, okay, hot girl + suggestion to swap clothes + isolation = fun times.
Hot girl + suggestion to swap clothes + rejecting her = one very bitter woman
Women generally don't blatantly hit on men like that unless they are almost SURE that you'll accept. When you didn't accept, it pissed her off and turned her off.
At that point you were not playing hard to get, you were playing "homosexual". She basically offered you some action and you turned her down.
Learn from the mistake.
As a guy, when a girl propositions you like that, you are NOT in any position to decline.
I mean, okay, hot girl + suggestion to swap clothes + isolation = fun times.
Hot girl + suggestion to swap clothes + rejecting her = one very bitter woman
Women generally don't blatantly hit on men like that unless they are almost SURE that you'll accept. When you didn't accept, it pissed her off and turned her off.
At that point you were not playing hard to get, you were playing "homosexual". She basically offered you some action and you turned her down.
Learn from the mistake.