"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When to move in for the kill

wildchild

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I have a problem that i think i tease some women too much until they get annoyed or angry with me. Like for example i was at a party and a girl wanted to me to go into the room and "swap clothes" with her because she thought my jumper was cool and i thought nah im gonna tease her a little more and say no when she was coming onto me i kept avoiding her advances. Is it possible to tease too much and if so when should you move in for the kill?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wildchild

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issues no i like to be hard to get and also i was happy because i rejected her.
 

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a nice guy enjoys teasing and being ****y and funny all the time. have a nice day nice guy.
 

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you prolly came off as rejecting her rather then teasing her. when you just say "no" how the hell does she know wut that means?

i woulda said "haha, its gonna take you a little more then that to get my in that room with you. geez i think your trying to take advantage of a drunk guy"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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or phrase it "you dont want to seem like your taking advantage of a drunk guy do you? so try a lil harder and maby you'll get lucky"
 

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when to move in for the kill .......

" .............. at the first scent of blood "


I would have led her by the hand to this room. Locked the door behind me, and told her to go first. If she was still willing I would have intently watched her undress without a word. If she was naked at this stage of the game you can damn well bet she didnt want to be naked alone..................
 

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you say u tease her, but u just said no to her advances.
that's not teasing.

IF u really wanted to tease, you wouldve made her work for it. instead of saying no
 

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I didnt mean i just said "no" i said things like very funny i know what your plan is. In a half serious tone. Then she just kept on coming and coming and coming like maybe rubbing herself up against me and then her friend would try the same but by this point i was too pissed to stand and she ****ed off.
 

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problem solved....don't expect your game to work when you're too drunk to stand
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What's a jumper? Where I live it something a 6 year old girl wears.

Are you a 6 year old girl? I think this site might be inappropriate for you and you should hold off on the drinking till you're 9.

Maybe it's a cultural thing.

Do most 6 year old girls drink till they pass out in your culture?
:eek:
 

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Here's the key that you missed:

As a guy, when a girl propositions you like that, you are NOT in any position to decline.

I mean, okay, hot girl + suggestion to swap clothes + isolation = fun times.

Hot girl + suggestion to swap clothes + rejecting her = one very bitter woman

Women generally don't blatantly hit on men like that unless they are almost SURE that you'll accept. When you didn't accept, it pissed her off and turned her off.

At that point you were not playing hard to get, you were playing "homosexual". She basically offered you some action and you turned her down.

Learn from the mistake.
 

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lol Donald its just like a top you put over your t shirt:p
 

wildchild

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lol Donald its just like a top you put over your t shirt:p thanks luscious
 
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