When to let guard down

[becker]

Hey guys, this has always been an area of interest for me. Basically, you lay on the C+F, and bust on her, which is supposed to help the rapport and IL.

However, the problem comes when it starts to become a little too much of a good thing, meaning that when the girl starts to ask you serious questions and you're still not giving her a straight answer and she gets a little irritated.

Do you guys back off the sarcasm and joking around when this happens, or do you just continue as you were doing before?

I've been very tempted to back off because it just doesn't seem appropriate sometimes when there is a somewhat serious tone and you're just being a moron about it.

What do you all think? Is the whole serious tone think just another shyt test?

 

[WaterTiger]

If she asks a serious question, give her a serious answer. If you are constantly joking and busting her chops, she'll think that you're a boring looser who CAN'T carry on an adult conversation.

When she starts asking serious questions, that means you've captured her interest...now you can show her you are brilliant as well as funny.

 

[becker]

Good advice there Water Tiger, thanks.

 

[jseib]

I recently had a simular problem with my "mystery building" game .. Try to look at what she wants to know and come up with an answer that gives her a taste of what she wants to know... Like if she wants to meet your friends let her meet one or 2.. If she wants to know about your job give her a few details then find an excuse to change topics


All depends on how you want to play it I suppose.. If the girl is overly inquisitive it's like a spoiled child demanding to know what theyre gettting for christmas in November and she'll throw tempertantrums to get what she wants.. So I guess it depends on the girl.. Some people love a good mystery some want to jump to the end of the book.

 

[Walk this Way]

BE NORMAL if she's asking serious questions. A mistake I used to make was that I'd constantly talk about stupid things like sex, or pretend I was ghetto, or just overall gross her out, and it made her feel great at first to see someone a little fun and unpredictable, but towards the end it was just so dumb, it wasn't me and she just gave up on me because it turned her off that I was an *******. Everything needs to be done in moderation.