"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when to kiss

spesmilitis

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sup foo's. Here's a tip that got me over my anxiety for when to kiss a girl when dating her.

When she's into you and she's working to meet your approval, then kissing her at the most awkward times will be alright, just imagine what she's thinking. If you do kiss at an awkward time, or your moves are sloppy, in her mind she's gonna be like 'that was kinda sloppy, but i better not blow my chances with this guy! i'll just go along with it.'

With this mentallity, the only time when my kisses have gone bad when i did it before the end of our first date. And that was rarely.

If she's into you (you see her kino responces to find out), then you can't really go wrong with kisses even if its anytime during the date. You can be like 'so, what do you think of the genicide in rwanda' then immediatly kiss after kiss after that. Ok, that might be alittle extreme, but you get the idea.

Remember, allota the times, girls think pretty similiary to guys. If you feel that a kiss is alright, then it probably is.

One of the biggest frustration of my friends who are girls is that the guys they date never make a move on the first couple dates. After a few they say its ok cuz they are comfortable enough to make moves themselves and don't have to depend on guys to make a move.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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onyx

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I dont get why people use tactics or think to much abt it before if they wanna kiss a girl...its pretty obvious if theyll let u kiss them...body language, eye contact, just if they seem into by talkin or woteva...i aint sayin what your saying is wrong..it all seems like abit to much thinking about it rather than doing..
 
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