"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when to kiss

spesmilitis

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sup foo's. Here's a tip that got me over my anxiety for when to kiss a girl when dating her.

When she's into you and she's working to meet your approval, then kissing her at the most awkward times will be alright, just imagine what she's thinking. If you do kiss at an awkward time, or your moves are sloppy, in her mind she's gonna be like 'that was kinda sloppy, but i better not blow my chances with this guy! i'll just go along with it.'

With this mentallity, the only time when my kisses have gone bad when i did it before the end of our first date. And that was rarely.

If she's into you (you see her kino responces to find out), then you can't really go wrong with kisses even if its anytime during the date. You can be like 'so, what do you think of the genicide in rwanda' then immediatly kiss after kiss after that. Ok, that might be alittle extreme, but you get the idea.

Remember, allota the times, girls think pretty similiary to guys. If you feel that a kiss is alright, then it probably is.

One of the biggest frustration of my friends who are girls is that the guys they date never make a move on the first couple dates. After a few they say its ok cuz they are comfortable enough to make moves themselves and don't have to depend on guys to make a move.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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onyx

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I dont get why people use tactics or think to much abt it before if they wanna kiss a girl...its pretty obvious if theyll let u kiss them...body language, eye contact, just if they seem into by talkin or woteva...i aint sayin what your saying is wrong..it all seems like abit to much thinking about it rather than doing..
 
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