"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when to kiss

spesmilitis

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sup foo's. Here's a tip that got me over my anxiety for when to kiss a girl when dating her.

When she's into you and she's working to meet your approval, then kissing her at the most awkward times will be alright, just imagine what she's thinking. If you do kiss at an awkward time, or your moves are sloppy, in her mind she's gonna be like 'that was kinda sloppy, but i better not blow my chances with this guy! i'll just go along with it.'

With this mentallity, the only time when my kisses have gone bad when i did it before the end of our first date. And that was rarely.

If she's into you (you see her kino responces to find out), then you can't really go wrong with kisses even if its anytime during the date. You can be like 'so, what do you think of the genicide in rwanda' then immediatly kiss after kiss after that. Ok, that might be alittle extreme, but you get the idea.

Remember, allota the times, girls think pretty similiary to guys. If you feel that a kiss is alright, then it probably is.

One of the biggest frustration of my friends who are girls is that the guys they date never make a move on the first couple dates. After a few they say its ok cuz they are comfortable enough to make moves themselves and don't have to depend on guys to make a move.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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onyx

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I dont get why people use tactics or think to much abt it before if they wanna kiss a girl...its pretty obvious if theyll let u kiss them...body language, eye contact, just if they seem into by talkin or woteva...i aint sayin what your saying is wrong..it all seems like abit to much thinking about it rather than doing..
 
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