"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when to kiss

spesmilitis

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sup foo's. Here's a tip that got me over my anxiety for when to kiss a girl when dating her.

When she's into you and she's working to meet your approval, then kissing her at the most awkward times will be alright, just imagine what she's thinking. If you do kiss at an awkward time, or your moves are sloppy, in her mind she's gonna be like 'that was kinda sloppy, but i better not blow my chances with this guy! i'll just go along with it.'

With this mentallity, the only time when my kisses have gone bad when i did it before the end of our first date. And that was rarely.

If she's into you (you see her kino responces to find out), then you can't really go wrong with kisses even if its anytime during the date. You can be like 'so, what do you think of the genicide in rwanda' then immediatly kiss after kiss after that. Ok, that might be alittle extreme, but you get the idea.

Remember, allota the times, girls think pretty similiary to guys. If you feel that a kiss is alright, then it probably is.

One of the biggest frustration of my friends who are girls is that the guys they date never make a move on the first couple dates. After a few they say its ok cuz they are comfortable enough to make moves themselves and don't have to depend on guys to make a move.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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onyx

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I dont get why people use tactics or think to much abt it before if they wanna kiss a girl...its pretty obvious if theyll let u kiss them...body language, eye contact, just if they seem into by talkin or woteva...i aint sayin what your saying is wrong..it all seems like abit to much thinking about it rather than doing..
 
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