so i asked the girl if she wanted to hang out tmr..... and she was like ill let u know tmr..... and she never did lol. freeze out or call her out on it? I have to assume she is somewhat interested since we made out for 2 hrs 2 days ago
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
when to freeze a girl out... i want to build more interest thru text
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I would seriously wait until she contacts you. Set the precedent early that you are not up for shyte! You asked her out, she said she'd let you know, and then she didn't.
Let's be honest. How hard would it have been to send you a quick text saying, sorry, can't today. It would have taken her all of 10 seconds.
Don't chase. You should be pissed. She wasted your time. You could have made other plans. There is no excuse.
If you MUST contact her. Wait a few days and say, "Hey, What the heck? You never got back to me. All I want to know now is how are you going to make this up to me? I think making me dinner is a good start."
Let's be honest. How hard would it have been to send you a quick text saying, sorry, can't today. It would have taken her all of 10 seconds.
Don't chase. You should be pissed. She wasted your time. You could have made other plans. There is no excuse.
If you MUST contact her. Wait a few days and say, "Hey, What the heck? You never got back to me. All I want to know now is how are you going to make this up to me? I think making me dinner is a good start."
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This must be a f*cking joke topic.cguy2004 said:
What the f*ck?
Build text through attraction? Are you SERIOUS?
You think that the best way to build attraction is through TEXT? By punching little plastic buttons on an overpriced piece of plastic?
What about the other 93% of communication, the nonverbals?
What happened to being a MAN and calling her? What happened to realizing that people have LIVES, and understanding that sh*t happens?
And another thing, you claim that you "don't play games" and "can do much better". If you didn't really "play games", you wouldn't be asking if ignoring her for a week would build attraction. The very subtext of saying "I don't play games" is that you play games!
My advice? Call her. Don't be a little boy and be upset that she didn't call you. No need to play games.