so i asked the girl if she wanted to hang out tmr..... and she was like ill let u know tmr..... and she never did lol. freeze out or call her out on it? I have to assume she is somewhat interested since we made out for 2 hrs 2 days ago
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
when to freeze a girl out... i want to build more interest thru text
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I would seriously wait until she contacts you. Set the precedent early that you are not up for shyte! You asked her out, she said she'd let you know, and then she didn't.
Let's be honest. How hard would it have been to send you a quick text saying, sorry, can't today. It would have taken her all of 10 seconds.
Don't chase. You should be pissed. She wasted your time. You could have made other plans. There is no excuse.
If you MUST contact her. Wait a few days and say, "Hey, What the heck? You never got back to me. All I want to know now is how are you going to make this up to me? I think making me dinner is a good start."
Let's be honest. How hard would it have been to send you a quick text saying, sorry, can't today. It would have taken her all of 10 seconds.
Don't chase. You should be pissed. She wasted your time. You could have made other plans. There is no excuse.
If you MUST contact her. Wait a few days and say, "Hey, What the heck? You never got back to me. All I want to know now is how are you going to make this up to me? I think making me dinner is a good start."
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This must be a f*cking joke topic.cguy2004 said:
What the f*ck?
Build text through attraction? Are you SERIOUS?
You think that the best way to build attraction is through TEXT? By punching little plastic buttons on an overpriced piece of plastic?
What about the other 93% of communication, the nonverbals?
What happened to being a MAN and calling her? What happened to realizing that people have LIVES, and understanding that sh*t happens?
And another thing, you claim that you "don't play games" and "can do much better". If you didn't really "play games", you wouldn't be asking if ignoring her for a week would build attraction. The very subtext of saying "I don't play games" is that you play games!
My advice? Call her. Don't be a little boy and be upset that she didn't call you. No need to play games.