mustfirstregister
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once you have kissed and made out. how long should i wait to contact her again?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
when to contact her after make out
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fly By Night
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1 hour later - never again.
Give this question some context for a more precise time range.
Give this question some context for a more precise time range.
break yourself
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There are no rules if you are confident and not needy. These sorts of rules are really just to keep over-eager men from destroying themselves. Contact her when you want to, but be a man. Women like fearless leaders, not men who choose an arbitrary time period because they are afraid the woman won't like them. Give her an alpha attitude -- you expect a positive outcome -- act like this, and a positive outcome will occur.
However, have a reason for for contacting her. Don't just call / text her and say "hi." Set up a date, or ask her how a specific event went, etc... anything that gives you a purpose for the contact.
However, have a reason for for contacting her. Don't just call / text her and say "hi." Set up a date, or ask her how a specific event went, etc... anything that gives you a purpose for the contact.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah.. can anyone say inner-game? :woo:break yourself said:
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
however long it takes you to live some life, accomplish some things, it make it inconsequential how the call goes.