mustfirstregister
Master Don Juan
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once you have kissed and made out. how long should i wait to contact her again?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
when to contact her after make out
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fly By Night
Master Don Juan
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1 hour later - never again.
Give this question some context for a more precise time range.
Give this question some context for a more precise time range.
break yourself
Don Juan
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There are no rules if you are confident and not needy. These sorts of rules are really just to keep over-eager men from destroying themselves. Contact her when you want to, but be a man. Women like fearless leaders, not men who choose an arbitrary time period because they are afraid the woman won't like them. Give her an alpha attitude -- you expect a positive outcome -- act like this, and a positive outcome will occur.
However, have a reason for for contacting her. Don't just call / text her and say "hi." Set up a date, or ask her how a specific event went, etc... anything that gives you a purpose for the contact.
However, have a reason for for contacting her. Don't just call / text her and say "hi." Set up a date, or ask her how a specific event went, etc... anything that gives you a purpose for the contact.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah.. can anyone say inner-game? :woo:break yourself said:
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
however long it takes you to live some life, accomplish some things, it make it inconsequential how the call goes.