when to call if not enough comfort was built

[john_1234]

while waiting in line for food today during noon time, i got this girl's #. since i was on a time limit, we only chatted for a mere minute or two while waiting in line which is definitely not enough time to establish some comfort. most likely, this one will be a flake. for situations like this (where you didn't build enough comfort), when would you call her? same day? next day? maybe a witty text message? by the way, i did a search but couldn't find anything.

 

[duttylove]

personally i dont beileve in the wait 2 days thing. i call when i want. might be same day might be 1 week. just make the call brief to set up a date! building comfort on the phone usually works against you. call her up say somethign around the lines of. it was nice chattin to you yesterday you seem like an interesting person, shame i was in a hurry. we should meet up on such n such at such time and continue you are conversation. dont use them exact words i dont know ur personality but u know where im goin with it

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

personally i dont beileve in the wait 2 days thing. i call when i want. might be same day might be 1 week. just make the call brief to set up a date! building comfort on the phone usually works against you. call her up say somethign around the lines of. it was nice chattin to you yesterday you seem like an interesting person, shame i was in a hurry. we should meet up on such n such at such time and continue you are conversation. dont use them exact words i dont know ur personality but u know where im goin with it

I'd say that's some pretty solid advice.

In this kind of situation, I wouldn't wait more than 2 days, before calling. You didn't get a chance to connect with her so the longer time goes by, the higher your chances are that she'll flake on you..... Not that it should matter. You got the digits, so you're a step further in the right direction. If she does flake, who cares?

good luck