"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When to ask for prom?

TheNewGuy

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My proms coming up in the beginning of May, whens a good time to start asking girls?

I mean you want to get to them before other guys do, but a lot of things can change in 3 months...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mpimpin

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It might seem that being single and not having a steady girlfriend is a problem when it comes to this whole prom situation, but now that I have a steady girl it makes it more difficult. As far as I can gather a girl has to have 1-2 months in advance notice. Usually ASAP!!! 2-3 months are ideal. Some BS about shopping for dresses etc. etc. etc. My prom is the end of April and I haven't said anything to my girl about it yet. That just seems so far off and I've never stayed in a relationship so long before. I'm gonna have to bring it up soon, but its just gonna suck if the relationship ends. Things would be weird and a pain in my ass to deal with
 

TheNewGuy

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So turns out the girl I was planning on asking got asked a few days ago by this guy she doesn't really like.

She said yes anyways, but I'm almost positive she'd go with me if she wasn't already asked by him. She was telling me how much a creep he was and stuff. Should I ask her anyways?
 
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