"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When to ask for prom?

TheNewGuy

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My proms coming up in the beginning of May, whens a good time to start asking girls?

I mean you want to get to them before other guys do, but a lot of things can change in 3 months...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mpimpin

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It might seem that being single and not having a steady girlfriend is a problem when it comes to this whole prom situation, but now that I have a steady girl it makes it more difficult. As far as I can gather a girl has to have 1-2 months in advance notice. Usually ASAP!!! 2-3 months are ideal. Some BS about shopping for dresses etc. etc. etc. My prom is the end of April and I haven't said anything to my girl about it yet. That just seems so far off and I've never stayed in a relationship so long before. I'm gonna have to bring it up soon, but its just gonna suck if the relationship ends. Things would be weird and a pain in my ass to deal with
 

TheNewGuy

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So turns out the girl I was planning on asking got asked a few days ago by this guy she doesn't really like.

She said yes anyways, but I'm almost positive she'd go with me if she wasn't already asked by him. She was telling me how much a creep he was and stuff. Should I ask her anyways?
 
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