"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When to ask for prom?

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TheNewGuy

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My proms coming up in the beginning of May, whens a good time to start asking girls?

I mean you want to get to them before other guys do, but a lot of things can change in 3 months...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It might seem that being single and not having a steady girlfriend is a problem when it comes to this whole prom situation, but now that I have a steady girl it makes it more difficult. As far as I can gather a girl has to have 1-2 months in advance notice. Usually ASAP!!! 2-3 months are ideal. Some BS about shopping for dresses etc. etc. etc. My prom is the end of April and I haven't said anything to my girl about it yet. That just seems so far off and I've never stayed in a relationship so long before. I'm gonna have to bring it up soon, but its just gonna suck if the relationship ends. Things would be weird and a pain in my ass to deal with
 
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So turns out the girl I was planning on asking got asked a few days ago by this guy she doesn't really like.

She said yes anyways, but I'm almost positive she'd go with me if she wasn't already asked by him. She was telling me how much a creep he was and stuff. Should I ask her anyways?
 
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