"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Master Disaster

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Whats a really good answer for what do you do in your free time? I can't think of any good ones. I was asked that today and I said just hanging out with friends. Then she said what do you guys do... Nosy S.O.B. Because you can't say I sit in my room making a shrine of you then I sacrifice my goats and bath in blood. I don't think that would fly. But seriously like volenteering at shelters? I just can't think of good ones to say to that.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GateKeeper

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volunteering at shelters?



Oh man! ****** SLAPS YOU* I've done a lot of charity and volunteer work, but I DO NOT TELL THE WOMEN UNLESS I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. Do not bring up *mushy boyfriend material* until you are in a deep relationship with her.

I'm serious.

Her: What do you do in your free time?
Me: I look outside my window, to see an group of women stalkers standing there, and I pick the best looking one to come in.
 

arutha

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'Free time? Ha! I don't have any free time.'
 

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Originally posted by GateKeeper

Her: What do you do in your free time?
Me: I look outside my window, to see an group of women stalkers standing there, and I pick the best looking one to come in.
hahaha

i love that, you just made my day.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJ_SUPREME

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eh you can just say you go to the gym, work, play bball with friends, hit parties, there are so many things you can say. and plz you can always tell a girl you volunteer it will only tell her you care
 

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say i work out

dont say i sit around the house on the computer
 

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
hahaha

i love that, you just made my day.
He was serious :eek:
 

syncmaster

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Hey guys... doesn't anybody notice the problem here?

She's asking what your hobbies are... and it sounds like none of you have any. What do you do for fun aside from hanging out? Do you play in a band, martial arts, photography, rock climb, go to the gym, write, read, ... wtf do you do for fun to fill time?
 

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"i make a living by winning masturbating contests, and that's my main hobby too"

that's pretty alpha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexTheGreat

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"I work on my car", "I work out", "I read", "I write", "I play music", "I compose music" (now that's a good one .. :) she'll ask you what you have written, then you can invite her to your place to show her some of your stuff ... ;)), "I help out around my community". There's so much stuff you can say, just imagine something out. I'm sure you can think of just about anything you do outside your house, and that could be passed on as an interesting hobby.
 

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Its not what you say its how you say it!

HB: so do you have any hobbies or any sort?

Me: *laughing* oh you wouldnt believe me even if i told you.

HB: Try me

*all eyes on you bro, including hers*

Me: well I like to golf, and if there is a girl with me I like to use my skill to stransform her into the worlds most awsome golfer.

(something along that line, you can say anything and make it sound exciting, just remember ,*what would a Dj do in this situation?* ask yourself that and you will get the answer automaticly. Your brain works and operate beyond your understanding, you'll be amazed.

Again, its not what you say but how you say it.
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
Hey guys... doesn't anybody notice the problem here?

She's asking what your hobbies are... and it sounds like none of you have any. What do you do for fun aside from hanging out? Do you play in a band, martial arts, photography, rock climb, go to the gym, write, read, ... wtf do you do for fun to fill time?
i troll www.herpes.com/chat for fun!
 

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All funny replys work. Get her guess, wondering about you when she is not really sure if your joking or serious. Either way, she'll laugh.
 
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