"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When they ask you...

The Master Disaster

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Whats a really good answer for what do you do in your free time? I can't think of any good ones. I was asked that today and I said just hanging out with friends. Then she said what do you guys do... Nosy S.O.B. Because you can't say I sit in my room making a shrine of you then I sacrifice my goats and bath in blood. I don't think that would fly. But seriously like volenteering at shelters? I just can't think of good ones to say to that.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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GateKeeper

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volunteering at shelters?



Oh man! ****** SLAPS YOU* I've done a lot of charity and volunteer work, but I DO NOT TELL THE WOMEN UNLESS I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. Do not bring up *mushy boyfriend material* until you are in a deep relationship with her.

I'm serious.

Her: What do you do in your free time?
Me: I look outside my window, to see an group of women stalkers standing there, and I pick the best looking one to come in.
 

arutha

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'Free time? Ha! I don't have any free time.'
 

Thraxeh

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Originally posted by GateKeeper

Her: What do you do in your free time?
Me: I look outside my window, to see an group of women stalkers standing there, and I pick the best looking one to come in.
hahaha

i love that, you just made my day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ_SUPREME

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eh you can just say you go to the gym, work, play bball with friends, hit parties, there are so many things you can say. and plz you can always tell a girl you volunteer it will only tell her you care
 

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say i work out

dont say i sit around the house on the computer
 

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
hahaha

i love that, you just made my day.
He was serious :eek:
 

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Hey guys... doesn't anybody notice the problem here?

She's asking what your hobbies are... and it sounds like none of you have any. What do you do for fun aside from hanging out? Do you play in a band, martial arts, photography, rock climb, go to the gym, write, read, ... wtf do you do for fun to fill time?
 

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"i make a living by winning masturbating contests, and that's my main hobby too"

that's pretty alpha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlexTheGreat

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"I work on my car", "I work out", "I read", "I write", "I play music", "I compose music" (now that's a good one .. :) she'll ask you what you have written, then you can invite her to your place to show her some of your stuff ... ;)), "I help out around my community". There's so much stuff you can say, just imagine something out. I'm sure you can think of just about anything you do outside your house, and that could be passed on as an interesting hobby.
 

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Its not what you say its how you say it!

HB: so do you have any hobbies or any sort?

Me: *laughing* oh you wouldnt believe me even if i told you.

HB: Try me

*all eyes on you bro, including hers*

Me: well I like to golf, and if there is a girl with me I like to use my skill to stransform her into the worlds most awsome golfer.

(something along that line, you can say anything and make it sound exciting, just remember ,*what would a Dj do in this situation?* ask yourself that and you will get the answer automaticly. Your brain works and operate beyond your understanding, you'll be amazed.

Again, its not what you say but how you say it.
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
Hey guys... doesn't anybody notice the problem here?

She's asking what your hobbies are... and it sounds like none of you have any. What do you do for fun aside from hanging out? Do you play in a band, martial arts, photography, rock climb, go to the gym, write, read, ... wtf do you do for fun to fill time?
i troll www.herpes.com/chat for fun!
 

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All funny replys work. Get her guess, wondering about you when she is not really sure if your joking or serious. Either way, she'll laugh.
 
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