GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
Does it mean a girl has extremely high interest if she's willing to wait a little while to get with you? (ie. 90%~ interest)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When The Girl Waits
- Thread starter GuitarOnFire
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lhemmix
Don Juan
A girl would usually delay the 'sex' if she wants a long term relationship.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
LOL, what mythical proof do you have from that fool? You talking outta your ass.
GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
She mentioned another guy that she's seeing ("not seriously") when I first talked to her. That guy has not been mentioned since.
I am going to ask her out tomorrow. She said 'yes' to getting together after my mid-terms the last time we spoke (a while ago -- two weeks) when I brought it up. She went nervous and talked faster than I thought possible.
I am going to ask her out tomorrow. She said 'yes' to getting together after my mid-terms the last time we spoke (a while ago -- two weeks) when I brought it up. She went nervous and talked faster than I thought possible.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.