Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When The Girl Waits

GuitarOnFire

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Does it mean a girl has extremely high interest if she's willing to wait a little while to get with you? (ie. 90%~ interest)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AmIAFC

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Originally posted by GuitarOnFire
Does it mean a girl has extremely high interest if she's willing to wait a little while to get with you? (ie. 90%~ interest)
Sure, but it can also mean that she has something to hold her over until you're ready.
 

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Originally posted by Lhemmix
A girl would usually delay the 'sex' if she wants a long term relationship.
LOL, what mythical proof do you have from that fool? You talking outta your ass.
 

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She mentioned another guy that she's seeing ("not seriously") when I first talked to her. That guy has not been mentioned since.

I am going to ask her out tomorrow. She said 'yes' to getting together after my mid-terms the last time we spoke (a while ago -- two weeks) when I brought it up. She went nervous and talked faster than I thought possible. :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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