GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
Does it mean a girl has extremely high interest if she's willing to wait a little while to get with you? (ie. 90%~ interest)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When The Girl Waits
- Thread starter GuitarOnFire
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lhemmix
Don Juan
A girl would usually delay the 'sex' if she wants a long term relationship.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
LOL, what mythical proof do you have from that fool? You talking outta your ass.
GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
She mentioned another guy that she's seeing ("not seriously") when I first talked to her. That guy has not been mentioned since.
I am going to ask her out tomorrow. She said 'yes' to getting together after my mid-terms the last time we spoke (a while ago -- two weeks) when I brought it up. She went nervous and talked faster than I thought possible.
I am going to ask her out tomorrow. She said 'yes' to getting together after my mid-terms the last time we spoke (a while ago -- two weeks) when I brought it up. She went nervous and talked faster than I thought possible.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.