"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When the girl lives 1h away

martoslo

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I got a number after being approached by a hb7-8 on saturday, I am planning to call later today to plan the 1.5th date sort of.

The problem is she may be living a little less than an hours drive away (or in town, I dont know yet), so driving to get her would seem a bit desparate, how do you best handle such a situation?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Black_Italian

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Lol what the problem i always tell girls to come to me if they live 5 min or 5 hours away. If they dont want to come i dont go out with them simple. They almost always come out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TxCowboy

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the problem with that is that if it does go somewhere, and yall start liking each other, transportation costs may become a major factor and with gas prices the way they are ....

it would be easier just to find someone else thats more local ... I did the same thing with the ex and hated it just because it became too much of a hassle ...

GL !
 

Austizzle

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Lol what the problem i always tell girls to come to me if they live 5 min or 5 hours away. If they dont want to come i dont go out with them simple. They almost always come out.
This is coming from the guy who posted that ninja thread. :rolleyes:
 

Kaparski

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Get a damn car already!

Money shouldnt be an issue either, and this "**** her if u need to travel " is stupid...... why not pay 10 to get laid than going around and finding one (not to mention the money used use at the club or wherever). This is the intellect of 4 year olds. The **** the broad concept applies to other situations, not ones which involve ur lack of laziness or cheapiness.

Enjoy it while it lasts
 

TxCowboy

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Originally posted by Kaparski
Get a damn car already!

Money shouldnt be an issue either, and this "**** her if u need to travel " is stupid...... why not pay 10 to get laid than going around and finding one (not to mention the money used use at the club or wherever). This is the intellect of 4 year olds. The **** the broad concept applies to other situations, not ones which involve ur lack of laziness or cheapiness.

Enjoy it while it lasts
Its common sense foo! Ur gonna start paying a lot more than $10 bucks - try more like 25+ after about 2 or 3 trips. Plus if it goes anywhere ... its another LDR , which gets to be a burden on both parties after a while ....

Go get the lay the first time, but after that, start pimping more around your local area ....
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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If her interest level is high enough, she could always come to your neck of the woods (given you do something that merits the drive).

I'm seeing one women who's about a hour away (next state over) and comes to my neck of the woods almost weekly. Given there's more to do on my side of the fence but again, if her IL is high anough, there's no telling how far they'd drive.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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