"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When the girl lives 1h away

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I got a number after being approached by a hb7-8 on saturday, I am planning to call later today to plan the 1.5th date sort of.

The problem is she may be living a little less than an hours drive away (or in town, I dont know yet), so driving to get her would seem a bit desparate, how do you best handle such a situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol what the problem i always tell girls to come to me if they live 5 min or 5 hours away. If they dont want to come i dont go out with them simple. They almost always come out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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the problem with that is that if it does go somewhere, and yall start liking each other, transportation costs may become a major factor and with gas prices the way they are ....

it would be easier just to find someone else thats more local ... I did the same thing with the ex and hated it just because it became too much of a hassle ...

GL !
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Lol what the problem i always tell girls to come to me if they live 5 min or 5 hours away. If they dont want to come i dont go out with them simple. They almost always come out.
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This is coming from the guy who posted that ninja thread. :rolleyes:
 
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Get a damn car already!

Money shouldnt be an issue either, and this "**** her if u need to travel " is stupid...... why not pay 10 to get laid than going around and finding one (not to mention the money used use at the club or wherever). This is the intellect of 4 year olds. The **** the broad concept applies to other situations, not ones which involve ur lack of laziness or cheapiness.

Enjoy it while it lasts
 
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TxCowboy

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Originally posted by Kaparski
Get a damn car already!

Money shouldnt be an issue either, and this "**** her if u need to travel " is stupid...... why not pay 10 to get laid than going around and finding one (not to mention the money used use at the club or wherever). This is the intellect of 4 year olds. The **** the broad concept applies to other situations, not ones which involve ur lack of laziness or cheapiness.

Enjoy it while it lasts
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Its common sense foo! Ur gonna start paying a lot more than $10 bucks - try more like 25+ after about 2 or 3 trips. Plus if it goes anywhere ... its another LDR , which gets to be a burden on both parties after a while ....

Go get the lay the first time, but after that, start pimping more around your local area ....
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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If her interest level is high enough, she could always come to your neck of the woods (given you do something that merits the drive).

I'm seeing one women who's about a hour away (next state over) and comes to my neck of the woods almost weekly. Given there's more to do on my side of the fence but again, if her IL is high anough, there's no telling how far they'd drive.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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