djthiago1
Master Don Juan
If she doesn't counter-offer, you move on. Or you can be dumb and stubborn like i was a month ago, where this girl had to flake on me 3 times for me to get the message. Never forget this rule. No Counter offer > NEXT.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When the answer is No
- Thread starter tennisbuck12
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
greatsnake
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Depends on what type of relationship you have with the chick. If it's a FWB, I just got dark and not text ever again. But if she has potential for a LTR, you give a little bit of room to play, but at the same time keeping her on her toes.