djthiago1
Master Don Juan
If she doesn't counter-offer, you move on. Or you can be dumb and stubborn like i was a month ago, where this girl had to flake on me 3 times for me to get the message. Never forget this rule. No Counter offer > NEXT.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When the answer is No
- Thread starter tennisbuck12
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
greatsnake
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Depends on what type of relationship you have with the chick. If it's a FWB, I just got dark and not text ever again. But if she has potential for a LTR, you give a little bit of room to play, but at the same time keeping her on her toes.