"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When she tells you she's attached?

Chipmonkey

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Short and sweet.

Last night I was talking a little bit with a chick I've been seeing (nothing serious). She mumbled something. What did you say?? She said I'm already attached to you.

I didn't say anything about it I changed the subject.

How should I have responded? My mind when blank and my heart started beating faster because I really like this chick. She has no idea how I feel though!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DankNuggs

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1.) Unzipper your fly
2.) Whip it out
3.) Start beating it.....


Seriously though, no need to get sappy, forget all those chick flick movies you grew up with, she won't get anymore attached with you acting like a giant afc...However you obviously know what this girl is looking for, and if your looking for the same thing, then thats great...i'd let her bring up the idea of exclusivity though...keep having fun....


gl
 

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good job

you did right by changing the subject...shes gonna be thinkin all day if she said the wrong thing or if she scared you off...or if you feel the same....good job...remember what the dj says


anytime you got them thinking about you...its all good
 

JohnJones

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Agreed. This is her way of partially putting her reserve rights on you. I would just keep going, don't get mushy and if you can't think of anything to say at a particular time, don't.

With some women, I am amazed at how little you actually need to perform.
 

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hey man, been in that situation .. not a direct " i like you" but very obvious hints .. being the chump i was i didn't go for the kiss .. next time you see that chick, try not to act all hot and bothered, be nice and charming (just the way she found you attractive) and go for the kiss whenever you get the chance.

You can't go wrong, i think ...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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