"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When she tells you she's attached?

Chipmonkey

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Short and sweet.

Last night I was talking a little bit with a chick I've been seeing (nothing serious). She mumbled something. What did you say?? She said I'm already attached to you.

I didn't say anything about it I changed the subject.

How should I have responded? My mind when blank and my heart started beating faster because I really like this chick. She has no idea how I feel though!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DankNuggs

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1.) Unzipper your fly
2.) Whip it out
3.) Start beating it.....


Seriously though, no need to get sappy, forget all those chick flick movies you grew up with, she won't get anymore attached with you acting like a giant afc...However you obviously know what this girl is looking for, and if your looking for the same thing, then thats great...i'd let her bring up the idea of exclusivity though...keep having fun....


gl
 

ToP DoN

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good job

you did right by changing the subject...shes gonna be thinkin all day if she said the wrong thing or if she scared you off...or if you feel the same....good job...remember what the dj says


anytime you got them thinking about you...its all good
 

JohnJones

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Agreed. This is her way of partially putting her reserve rights on you. I would just keep going, don't get mushy and if you can't think of anything to say at a particular time, don't.

With some women, I am amazed at how little you actually need to perform.
 

salthepal

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hey man, been in that situation .. not a direct " i like you" but very obvious hints .. being the chump i was i didn't go for the kiss .. next time you see that chick, try not to act all hot and bothered, be nice and charming (just the way she found you attractive) and go for the kiss whenever you get the chance.

You can't go wrong, i think ...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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