"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When She Talks Really Negative About Her Ex...
- Thread starter Disco
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonGorgon
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When she is mad at you those are the things she will accuse you of being also.. Many times its the way she sees most men due to her own issues with her dad..
Women/humans lie alot.. but the information contained within a lie can still be very useful in aiding your strategic formulations....
Magma
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Because it's a sign that they’re either not over their ex-bf or they had no respect for their ex-bf and ran all over them before breaking it off.Disco said:why is it a red flag? please explain more.
If she says things like that, you should observe her character and proceed cautiously.
She's now spreading absolutely identical rumours about me. ****ing ridiculous. She's using it to get whatever attention she wants.
She = my ex, not your gf by the way. I would just be wary of anyone who complains about their ex non-stop like that.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Now it just really depends if you like her or not. Then the next time you ask her out, hold her hand... if she squeezes back then you're in, if she pulls away then you have no chance, move on.
Don't leave her before you know what she's wanted. It's all about getting the experience to tell what signal she's trying to send
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ive got first hand experience of this, an ex. They know he's useless, bad news etc, but believe it or not they could and sometimes do go back to them. Im not saying she'll cheat (but never rule it out, ever!) but if you broke up tommorow you shouldn't be shocked if the atleast has a fling with him again. Thats how girls work, they dont act with their heads.
anyway, maybe she is pretty repulsed by her ex, alot of relationships end like this. But still, you stay neutral. She could ***** about him all day but shag him that night, literally.
puma183
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A woman who rants about how terrible her ex BFs were to her is telling you one thing: she has bad taste in men.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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haha so true, but could it be a shyt test?Jitterbug said:Women b!tch about their ex to shift all the blame on the guys to forget about the fact that they CHOSE to be in that relationship and were a part of it. Just one of the ways they deny accountability for the choices they made themselves.
A woman who rants about how terrible her ex BFs were to her is telling you one thing: she has bad taste in men.
Don't think it's a test, but if it is, I believe that a sh!t test says just as much about the woman doing the testing as it is about the man dealing with it. In other words, she's still low quality.Azudragon said:haha so true, but could it be a shyt test?