"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When she starts to act distant or pissy and makes excuses

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To when she startings to act distatant or makes excuses shes PMSing when shes clearly not...etc

What are some good comebacks or sometime thing to make her smile and lift her up...?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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move on


lol you know how many women i've banged on their periods? that **** is not an excuse. a woman that wants you wants you and a woman that doesn't doesn't.
 
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This is where the reward and punishment method comes, if a chick acts good and pleases you, you need to reward her with more of your time and affection. If she start's giving you crap then punish her and divert your attention to other chicks, dude I do not believe in letting chicks play games with me, so right now you need to focus your time and attention on other chicks, find another chick you can hang out with and focus on her, let your current girlfriend know that you're spending time with someone else, don't verbally tell her that because she won't take you seriously but let her see you with other females.....trust me it will get her straight. If it doesn't then get rid of her.
 
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Whatever you do, don't argue with a woman. There is no winning. There are only degrees of losing.

And refusal to argue is not the same as submission. Something I have said a lot to different b!tching women over the years is "Look, I'm doing the best I can. If you don't like it, there's the door."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crissco said:
To when she startings to act distatant or makes excuses shes PMSing when shes clearly not...etc

What are some good comebacks or sometime thing to make her smile and lift her up...?
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bang another girl....it will give you a smile, and def will lift up something for you
 
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Bible_Belt said:
Whatever you do, don't argue with a woman. There is no winning. There are only degrees of losing.
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CJ 101 said:
This is where the reward and punishment method comes, if a chick acts good and pleases you, you need to reward her with more of your time and affection.

If she start's giving you crap then punish her and divert your attention to other chicks
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Don't put up with disrespect if a woman is acting like that. Divert your attention to more worthwhile causes.
 
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