Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bang another girl....it will give you a smile, and def will lift up something for youCrissco said:To when she startings to act distatant or makes excuses shes PMSing when shes clearly not...etc
What are some good comebacks or sometime thing to make her smile and lift her up...?
Bible_Belt said:Whatever you do, don't argue with a woman. There is no winning. There are only degrees of losing.
Don't put up with disrespect if a woman is acting like that. Divert your attention to more worthwhile causes.CJ 101 said:This is where the reward and punishment method comes, if a chick acts good and pleases you, you need to reward her with more of your time and affection.
If she start's giving you crap then punish her and divert your attention to other chicks