"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When she starts to act distant or pissy and makes excuses

Crissco

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To when she startings to act distatant or makes excuses shes PMSing when shes clearly not...etc

What are some good comebacks or sometime thing to make her smile and lift her up...?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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move on


lol you know how many women i've banged on their periods? that **** is not an excuse. a woman that wants you wants you and a woman that doesn't doesn't.
 

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This is where the reward and punishment method comes, if a chick acts good and pleases you, you need to reward her with more of your time and affection. If she start's giving you crap then punish her and divert your attention to other chicks, dude I do not believe in letting chicks play games with me, so right now you need to focus your time and attention on other chicks, find another chick you can hang out with and focus on her, let your current girlfriend know that you're spending time with someone else, don't verbally tell her that because she won't take you seriously but let her see you with other females.....trust me it will get her straight. If it doesn't then get rid of her.
 

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Whatever you do, don't argue with a woman. There is no winning. There are only degrees of losing.

And refusal to argue is not the same as submission. Something I have said a lot to different b!tching women over the years is "Look, I'm doing the best I can. If you don't like it, there's the door."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crissco said:
To when she startings to act distatant or makes excuses shes PMSing when shes clearly not...etc

What are some good comebacks or sometime thing to make her smile and lift her up...?
bang another girl....it will give you a smile, and def will lift up something for you
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Whatever you do, don't argue with a woman. There is no winning. There are only degrees of losing.

CJ 101 said:
This is where the reward and punishment method comes, if a chick acts good and pleases you, you need to reward her with more of your time and affection.

If she start's giving you crap then punish her and divert your attention to other chicks
Don't put up with disrespect if a woman is acting like that. Divert your attention to more worthwhile causes.
 
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