Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You are married or in LTR?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats your play here on the DJ FORUMS? Even when i was more Blue pilld and exclusive, I still checked the old Mystery forums, and rsdnation. Just to keep skills sharp. What have you did to keep grounded?
100%. I do that.
Me too. Its awesome. And it pisses them off but then they chase.
It is in contrast to MM but, its in part counter to the blue pill and male complacency pattern. Mystery always recommended to cycling through old #s. Skim through flakew, ghosting, and the likes to avoid dryspells. Also to extract the most from the work you've done. Personally, my D won't get hard for Chad's booty call and Tyrones gang bang thot. I always just cut it off and #nextSet!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There's definitely levels of confidence that you portray when you got perma poon. Its that easy mode women go through during top form SMV 18-23 and series of cawk on speed dial. Women spend most their life looking up, they fail to see the wall they're crashing into. I don't do exclusivity. It seems to be a bachelor alternative to the bench warmer.
My POWER PLAY is #nextSet! Its my Go to. Arguably, I am over eager then gun shy. It goes to the old adage, actions speak louder than words. A solid play point of view is putting women on ice. Female nature is hypergamy on steroids. Its always looking up and wanting more. Always craving attention. So place her on DISREGARD. RADIO SILENCE. I lead. She follows or next. Repeat till d falls off or dead.