"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When She is Being Cold

B-Lemond

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Her: (Acting Cold, Disinterested, Boring, etc.)

B-L: Are you always so (Cold, Disinterested, etc.)?
OR
B-L: (If she is Boring) Are you always this INTERESTING? :rolleyes:

Call her out on her Behavior.

I've found that when I call them out on there behavior DIRECTLY they open up much more quickly.

Instead of trying to get around her attitude INDIRECTLY by trying to cheer her up, asking more questions, and basically TRYING TOO HARD (supplicating), I have noticed that by telling her that I "figured her out" in a DIRECT manner, she OPENS up more quickly.

It may be because you are one of the few that can actually understand her. It may be because you show her you different from everyone else because you are Confident enough to call her out on her behavior and that you are socially savvy that you can read people's emotions.

Whatever the reason may be...

Give it a Try!

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmmm I guess I do that naturally even though I never analyze what I say. Course I conjure up the witty stuff to the females I'm not attracted to lol. Life works in opposites, the ones you don't want are all over you while the ones you want run away from you.


It's a lot different when you want to bone the female...I am just learning I have to balance my persona between: confident horny male and natural don juan(totally smooth and suttle). I definitely will give it a try towards the 10's.
 

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