"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When She is Being Cold

B-Lemond

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Her: (Acting Cold, Disinterested, Boring, etc.)

B-L: Are you always so (Cold, Disinterested, etc.)?
OR
B-L: (If she is Boring) Are you always this INTERESTING? :rolleyes:

Call her out on her Behavior.

I've found that when I call them out on there behavior DIRECTLY they open up much more quickly.

Instead of trying to get around her attitude INDIRECTLY by trying to cheer her up, asking more questions, and basically TRYING TOO HARD (supplicating), I have noticed that by telling her that I "figured her out" in a DIRECT manner, she OPENS up more quickly.

It may be because you are one of the few that can actually understand her. It may be because you show her you different from everyone else because you are Confident enough to call her out on her behavior and that you are socially savvy that you can read people's emotions.

Whatever the reason may be...

Give it a Try!

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sam Gold

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Hmmm I guess I do that naturally even though I never analyze what I say. Course I conjure up the witty stuff to the females I'm not attracted to lol. Life works in opposites, the ones you don't want are all over you while the ones you want run away from you.


It's a lot different when you want to bone the female...I am just learning I have to balance my persona between: confident horny male and natural don juan(totally smooth and suttle). I definitely will give it a try towards the 10's.
 

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