"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When She is Being Cold

B-Lemond

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Her: (Acting Cold, Disinterested, Boring, etc.)

B-L: Are you always so (Cold, Disinterested, etc.)?
OR
B-L: (If she is Boring) Are you always this INTERESTING? :rolleyes:

Call her out on her Behavior.

I've found that when I call them out on there behavior DIRECTLY they open up much more quickly.

Instead of trying to get around her attitude INDIRECTLY by trying to cheer her up, asking more questions, and basically TRYING TOO HARD (supplicating), I have noticed that by telling her that I "figured her out" in a DIRECT manner, she OPENS up more quickly.

It may be because you are one of the few that can actually understand her. It may be because you show her you different from everyone else because you are Confident enough to call her out on her behavior and that you are socially savvy that you can read people's emotions.

Whatever the reason may be...

Give it a Try!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sam Gold

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Hmmm I guess I do that naturally even though I never analyze what I say. Course I conjure up the witty stuff to the females I'm not attracted to lol. Life works in opposites, the ones you don't want are all over you while the ones you want run away from you.


It's a lot different when you want to bone the female...I am just learning I have to balance my persona between: confident horny male and natural don juan(totally smooth and suttle). I definitely will give it a try towards the 10's.
 

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