"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When She Giggles Too Much...Slap Her?

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To further prove that girls are crazy...I saw her again today and she did not giggle ONCE.

She responded to everything I said...almost like she read this thread:eek:

After me ignoring her most of the night, she gave me a piece of paper, told me she found it. It said how cute my @ss was and it was signed "hott 4 U" ...lmao a bit childish but it got me to laugh.

When she left I gave her a piece of paper that said "Tell me something I don't know"

I think this girl is trying to get me to make the move.

Oh boy... she has already let me know she is not interested in being a ONS...she wants a LTR. She is just so damn hott and sweet...

Enough with the games...time to make my move.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ezilonman


After me ignoring her most of the night, she gave me a piece of paper, told me she found it. It said how cute my @ss was and it was signed "hott 4 U" ...lmao a bit childish but it got me to laugh.
haha yea id say that a bit 5th grade style. sounds like a fun girl, but dont get caught in any emotional bull****.
 

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giggling is good .

wait 2 yrs and then you will come back saying "how do i make this chick giggle. all she does is look at me funny when i tell a joke"
 
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