“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
when she comes over to ur house to watch a movie
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Depends on the situation. But, man, you focus on each other. The movie is for when you get bored with her (Lol).duckbutt said:hey guys when u and a girl are watching a movie at ur house or hers.... what do u do?? do u watch the movie while cuddling with her or what??? ive been wondering about this
Actually, the movie is an excuse to get close. Yeah, you may watch the movie if you're not at the "make a move" point, but you still get physical with her; of course, it's different with friends.
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lolgodsgifttowomen said:Her. :yes:
Turn off all the lights, tell her to sit on the couch, get her a drink (soda, beer, wine, what the fvck ever), pop in the movie, plop down next to her VERY close where your shoulders are touching. Watch about 15 in just lean over and kiss her on the lips and watch her reaction. If she likes it, she'll smile. You can choose to keep going at this point or lean over and kiss her again a few minutes later. You've gotta just do it. I know it's tough, but you've gotta do it if you want some play. If she turns her cheek, or won't let you kiss her, then you're done. Watch the movie and kick her out. I've even just turned the lights back on and sat on the other end of the couch and finished the movie. :cheer:
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Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
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LOL myself.Ashley Chuckles said:Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
I ALWAYS finish the movie... being a kind of film nut myself, not finishing the damn thing somehow feels wrong.
Anyhow... if you sit there mildly kino-ing a girl for a whole hour-and-a-half... she's going to be wetter than heck by the time it's over!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.Ashley Chuckles said:Seriously... what you do when you're next to a chick watching a movie is the oldest move in the book... you're just over-thinking this and worrying about it, it's simple!
Going over to a chicks home or having her over to yours to watch a movie is just code for lets fvck since chicks can't directly say it without feeling like slvts... remember, they don't want you to think they're too easy!
Needless to say I don't think I've ever completed a movie, lol...
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OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
Oh my god.... i would give my life savings for a night like that, lol.DJinTraining06 said:I like my method last sat night. invited her over for a movie. I said lets go get dinner, so we went out and ate, came home to my place, put something on and i made a move, we took it to my room had sex for bout 30 mins, got dressed, ordered a movie on demand, watched it all - bout 2 hrs. Then she made the move and we did it again. Perfect night, lol. The movie gave me time to recoop and get my mojo back, and we could sit back an enjoy it cuddling without worrying bout doin any of that. And then after we went at it again, and we chilled for another 2 hrs and she went home. Perfect nite. Of course it wont always work out liek that and she was really horny apparently, but i thought it was good.
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realsmoothie said:OK so how did you do the pre-movie "make a move". Usually I'd think that's hard unless you've managed to plop her down on the couch early.
we were just flippin channels and landed on 40 yr old virigin, laughed a tone scene and i kissed her on the couch and she got so into it, basically she initiated the real sexual part, i just kissed her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.